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Six Relationship Warning Signs - His Side

You Know When...

You keep tabs on her without her knowledge

You're often on the verge of blowing up

At home, your family is afraid of you

 you lose control when you're hurt

She doesn't understand it's her fault

You think you can't live without her

You keep tabs on her without her knowledge

  • You look through her cell phone without her consent

  • You check her email without her consent

  • You know her passwords

  • You look through her purse

  • You have to know who she is meeting with and what she is doing

You're often on the verge of blowing up

  • You get upset about almost everything - at work, with friends, at home.

  • You get upset about how she dresses, and who she is friends with

  • You want to hurt her or someone close to her 

  • You want to break something: furniture, a mirror, a flower pot. Preferably an object she likes.

At home, your family is afraid of you

  • The members of your household do not speak freely next to you

  • The kids are scared when you are angry

  • She hides things because she's afraid of your reactions

 you lose control when you're hurt

  • You feel that you are being treated with contempt in your home

  • You think she does not respect you in arguments and quarrels

  • You cannot manage your anger

She doesn't understand it's her fault

  • You find yourself constantly making accusations and trying to settle old scores

  • You think she has taken control over your life

  • Without her, you would not be depressed all the time

You think you can't live without her

  • You do not know how you will manage to live alone

  • Without her, you think you are worth nothing and not worth living

  • Your thoughts turn to violence in order to prevent separation

  • Your thoughts turn to revenge when she decides to break up 

  • You think that if she is not yours, she cannot be anyone else’s

Sound familiar?
Call 1218, the anonymous men's help line at the Ministry of Welfare

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